Pastor John Gray
Pastor John Gray
Real Name/Full Name John W. Gray III
Nick Name/Celebrated Name: John Gray
Birth Place: Ohio, USA
Date Of Birth/Birthday: 26 June 1973
Age/How Old: 49 years old
Height/How Tall: In Centimetres – 178 cm
In Feet and Inches – 5′ 8″
Weight: In Kilograms – 116 Kg
In Pounds – 256 lbs
Eye Color: N/A
Hair Color: Bald
Parents Name: Father – Hugh Gray
Mother – Margery Naper
Siblings: N/A
School: N/A
College: N/A
Religion: Christianity
Nationality: American
Zodiac Sign: Cancer
Gender: Male
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Marital Status: Married
Girlfriend: N/A
Wife/Spouse Name: Aventer Gray
Kids/Children Name: John W. Gray IV and Theory Aspyn-Sky Gray
Profession: Pastor
Net Worth: $10 Million
Last Updated: March 2023

John W. Gray III is the Senior Pastor at Relentless Church in Greenville, SC (formerly Redemption Church) and continues to work as an associate pastor at Lakewood Church in Houston, Texas, which is America’s largest single venue church. He mainly preaches at Lakewood’s midweek service, which attracts thousands of people each week.

John was added to Oprah’s Super Soul 100, a group of 100 spiritually awakened individuals who are using their voices and talents to help others. The Oprah Winfrey Network broadcasts his program, The Book of John Gray. John, Aventer, and their twins, John W. Gray IV and Theory Aspyn-Sky Gray, live in Greenville, South Carolina.

Well, how well do you know about John Gray? If not much, we have compiled all you need to know about John Gray’s net worth in 2023, his age, height, weight, wife, kids, biography and complete details about his life. Well, if you’re all set, here is what we know about John Gray to date.

Biography and Early Life

Pastor John Gray was born on the 26th of June in 1973 in Cincinnati, Ohio. He is the son of Margery Naper and Hugh Gray. Unfortunately, his parents divorced when he was 4 years old and would only see his father a few times when he was growing up. In an interview, Pastor John Gray revealed that he forgave his father when he was on his deathbed for not being there for most of his childhood. He still works hard to make his father proud.

Age, Height, Weight & Body Measurement

So, how old is John Gray in 2023 and what is his height and weight? Well, John Gray’s age is 49 years old as of today’s date 29th March 2023 having been born on 26 June 1973. Though, he is 5′ 8″ in feet and inches and 178 cm in Centimetres tall, he weighs about 256 lbs in Pound and 116kg in Kilograms.


Pastor John Gray is more concerned about his ministry life and his career. For this reason, he doesn’t talk much about his childhood life and this includes information about his education. As at now we don’t have any information about his school life.

Personal Life: Dating, Girlfriends, Wife, Kids

Pastor John Gray With Wife Aventer Gray
Pastor John Gray With Wife Aventer Gray

John Gray is currently married to Aventer Gray and the couple is currently blessed with two children. They have a son called John W. Gray IV and a daughter called Theory Aspyn-Sky Gray. His wife is the co-pastor alongside her husband in Greenville, South Carolina. She is also the COO of “John Gray Ministries” and a force to be reckoned with as a regular speaker at the esteemed ‘Lakewood Church’ which is currently pastored by Joel Osteen in Houston, Texas.

Since 2019, the famous Relentless Church pastor in South Carolina has been accused of cheating. Pastor Gray said in a March 2019 interview on The Real that his affair was mental rather than physical. When he and his wife were having issues, he says he confided in someone other than a psychologist or a pastoral leader and acknowledged that it was incorrect.

Is John Gray Gay?

No, he is not gay. Pastor Gray has been married to his wife Aventer for many years now and together they have 2 kids named John and Theory. This is enough to prove that he is straight as far as his sexual orientation is concerned.

Professional Career

John Gray served as an associate pastor at Lakewood Church in Houston, Texas, under Joel Osteen, and he continues to preach there as of 2020. Pastor Ron Carpenter invited him to take over the local Redemption Church congregation and house, so he, his wife, and two children moved to Greenville in 2018. After taking over as head pastor, he called the church Relentless Church, while Carpenter continued to lead Redemption in San Jose, California.

Gray also has his own reality TV program, “The Book of John Gray,” which aired on the Oprah Winfrey Network and focused on his spiritual responsibilities, mentoring of others in need, and life as one of America’s high-profile pastors. The show’s fourth season was not extended. Gray was involved in a lawsuit in 2020 over an alleged lease of Relentless Church, which was occupied by Carpenter’s Redemption Church.

Relentless was evicted from the house and buildings on Haywood Road in Greenville by Redemption. Since Carpenter’s Redemption ministry relocated to California, the land has been inhabited by Relentless. Relentless is not in default on its apparent mortgage, according to Gray. Relentless was eventually able to stay at the Haywood Road campus thanks to an undisclosed settlement.

Gray’s tenure in the Upstate has not been without controversy. In 2019, the pastor attracted media attention after purchasing a Lamborghini SUV for his wife Aventer as a wedding anniversary present. Since rumours about his Lamborghini gift rose, he discussed a personal matter on national television. He admitted to having a “emotional affair” with the hosts of “The True.” In 2019, he was also chastised for asking the congregation to contribute to the cost of a new $250,000 church roof.

On Easter Sunday, Gray revealed during his Easter services in Greenville that the church had found land for a new campus near Atlanta. He also revealed plans for substantial renovations to Relentless’ existing Haywood Road campus, including a covered walkway, a new façade, the relocation of the children’s ministry, and a number of other improvements.


Despite his successful career in preaching, John Gray has not yet received any awards.

Net Worth, Salary & Earnings of John Gray in 2023

Pastor John Gray Net Worth
Pastor John Gray Net Worth

We may not have the exact amount he earns per year, but we know about his net worth. As of 2023, Pastor John Gray has an estimated net worth of $10 Million. He has earned all his wealth through his commitment in the ministry and from his earnings as a senior pastor.

Pastor John Gray has groen to be a very influential man as he works hard every day to spread his beliefs in Christianity. He has been preaching for quite a long time now and many people have thanked him for changing their lives for the better.


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